What I Desire

The thing I desire most out of a relationship is companionship. What that means to me is that the person I am with is someone I can talk to about anything and everything without fear of being judged. That we are in constant practice of trying to get to know one another. That we want to share our thoughts and feelings about the things that happened in our day whether they are of any significance or not.

My second most desire is communication. Without communication there is nothing. If I don’t know how you feel and you don’t know how I feel then how can we get anywhere? There are so many forms of communication that it seems absolutely absurd that none would take place. Tell your significant other how you feel. Show your partner how much you care in ways that they will understand. Write love notes to each other in ways that are significant to you. If you are standing there not speaking, touching, smiling at us we don’t know what you’re thinking. Just you being physically there means nothing to us because it communicates nothing.

My third most desire is passion. Passion, in my opinion, is the one thing that separates a friendship from a relationship. Passion to me is the strong desire to touch, be touched, be close to another person because it almost feels wrong not to. Undeniably this is strongest in new couples and after sometime there are couples that experience a lower level of it but it is still there. Passion is the easiest mechanism to express feelings to each other when words will not do. Passion is something that stays with you when you go off to work. Gives you that giddy feeling in you stomach when you think of the other person. Makes you blush internally. Keeps you going.